Many men have the trouble that there is no way to sexually satisfy a woman. Whether it’s a couple or a boyfriend or girlfriend, a harmonious and regular sex life can make the relationship more intimate, more stable and better. Many women in this area is also a bitterness, always can not directly say that the man can not do things.
What behavior of men will make women feel that he “can not”?
1, treat sex very cold
Everyone has a sexual desire, which is a very normal thing. But many men are not interested in sex, the face of the woman’s initiative, either perfunctory, or direct refusal, which is a very unacceptable thing for women. Men’s libido decline has many reasons, such as bad feelings, too busy, disease, etc., should be resolved as soon as possible.
2, can’t get an erection
The reason why men and women can communicate deeply, one of the prerequisites is this. If a man can’t get an erection before sex starts smoothly, sex can only be interrupted, which is a helpless thing for both sides. The inability of men to get an erection depends on whether it is an occasional problem or a frequent one. If it happens only occasionally, you can take care of it. If this is often the case, it is time to go to the hospital for a checkup to see if you have impotence.
3, time is too short
Some men can only last a minute or two in their sex life, which makes women think he can’t. Each man’s situation is different, there are differences between people, so there is not a fixed standard. But if each time the persistence time is very short, only last for one or two minutes or two or three minutes, you should go to the hospital to check. But women need to be clear about this problem, it’s not that they can’t satisfy themselves, it’s premature ejaculation, it’s two different things.
To solve this problem, men and women should do what?
Sexual life is not a matter of one person, and problems have to be solved by two people. First of all, men should recognize their own shortcomings and not resist sex because of it. It is best to go to the hospital for a checkup to see if the cause is disease related. Also look for reasons from the psychological side, to communicate more with your partner. Women also need to help and not just complain. To give encouragement and comfort, and to support the man to go to the hospital for examination. Also with the man to develop a healthy lifestyle, eat healthy food, more physical exercise, have a scientific habit of rest and relaxation.
In addition, men who always feel weak in sexual life, you can drink a tea, this tea has the effect of tonifying the kidneys and strengthening the yang, benefitting the kidneys and fixing the essence, can be used as an auxiliary conditioning method. This tea consists of ginseng, Chinese wolfberry, yellow essence, raspberry, maca tablets, eucommia andrographis, jujube, cinnamon. Ginseng has the effect of replenishing vital energy, toning the body and improving the immune system. Chinese wolfberry is a very common health material in life, which is good for men and has the effect of tonifying the kidney and aphrodisiac. Yellow essence and cinnamon are also helpful in improving male sexual performance and enhancing physical fitness. Drink two cups a day, can help you regain your virility as soon as possible.